What is Love?

A feeling which is imbibed in each and every individual. The word love is far more more deep the perceived in the normal sense. In the current trend the word love has taken a totally different route altogether, it more about a relationship between a guy and a girl, and yes i am going to talk about the same issue.

I am not going to address issues like parental love or the bonds between a brothers and sisters. These kinds of love happens and you tend to grow to love them as time passes by and you have 'n' number of reasons for the same. It is a bond which forms at birth and the love stays.

Now coming to the actual crux of the topic, people generally say to their friends first in ways similar to this like "I am in love" or "Ennaku Love vanthuduchu" or "Mujhe pyaar ho gaya hai"(sorry guys i know only three languages else would have typed in all the languages) this is the way things usually go about it in the first place. People then go about trying out all the filmy styles in order to impress the love of their life.

I agree with all the points till now, it is a great feeling that too I agree and we have novels, plays and not to forget our film industry to support these claims. People go about the love issue rather too fast, which i am not blaming some people are lucky to find them, many i mean make blunders and there are numerous cases of heart break due to varying reasons which i need not emphasize on right now.

All said, it is now to discuss about what this whole love is all about. People kinda hurry up on the whole issue of love, the simple reason you get is or the advice you get is including the film industry is that "Hurry up and tell your love soon else, you may loose that person", this is quite true and i don't deny this statement, yes you can never delay love and it has to be said soon. The logic is quite simple if you have to catch a train or a flight you can be there an hour in advance and sometimes you can start from home 3 hours in advance but when you try to be there a day in advance or for a night journey you decide to come to the place of departure in the morning that is insane.

People hurry up in their relation and they try to save time on it. I don't quite understand what saving time here implies and what is the hurry about it, love will happen when it has to happen and people should not force them into it. Love is a wonderful feeling and people will know its depth only when the find the right person.

Love is about understanding, compassion, feeling for one another and now in the current era it is not about that at all, it all about looks that play a pivotal role in deciding the partner. I am not generalizing anything it is the fact and i could be wrong about the 10% of the people but the rest 90% is about looks.

I am not against anybody when i stated my previous sentence many could be lucky to find a good heart behind great looks but that is just luck and people in general are not that lucky let's face it shall we, if every one were lucky everyone who bet on horse would have won, so it is a rare probability.

I would like to place beauty behind the character of a person, many people aspire for a drop-dead-gorgeous looks simply because it will feel the person elated, i am not criticizing anyone when i saw this, you could be an exception but a person does this mainly to show of his loved one and to such person character comes secondary and people in general usually envy such kinda relations mainly because it looks great when looked from a distance but not so great when near.

My simple logic would be that if you find a true love in some one it is bound to be noticed by that person and that person will seem beautiful to your eyes no matter what the comments are, people usually pay heed to various comments which is one of the main reasons of causing disputes but a deep love will not have such barriers.

I don't know how to elaborate on this love issue in a simple blog so i will finish this one by stating that "Love is a wonderful feeling and people should experience it but never push yourself to it, it will happen at the right time"