Monday, March 29, 2010

Family FEUD

First i would like to apologize for not posting any blog in such a long time. This problem of family feud is a growing issue and it has hardly been addressed in any place for a long time now. And to be frank no particular family is immune from facing such a problem. If you say your family has not encountered any such problem then i would say that you are lying or you are not actually aware of what is going around you.

Many disputes of such nature boil down to property or issue regarding once wealth or stature in the family. This never gets old many film people have cashed it in the industry from time to time. I don't understand why do people change, is money everything in their life, can't people remain the same all the time. It has been said time and again that "what have you brought to this world to take it back" it is just the love and affection by which people will remember you in the long run.

I am not stating that you have to be saint and let go of your rights and be a noble person. We are normal people with normal aspirations, my point is as simple as it gets just try to enjoy your dreams and achieve by not overstepping your boundaries so that it might affect the privileges of others. Isn't that the same concept implied in law too, a person's right ends where the other persons right begins.

And you know what, i think these problems of family feud will continue to exist till that point where the aggrieved party decides to let go of his or her right in the particular issue, this can be perceived in two sense or even more. I see the following reasons, one is that it is not worth the fight or the dispute, it can always be earned back and the person does not want to hurt the feelings of the elderly, the more devilish side to it is the actual fear of losing out on some portion of the property, this actual though forces a person to think in more than one way to get a major chunk in some property and in this process they decide to be irrational in their own pursuit.

I really don't want to be found around such kind of people, these people may be great even good but certain acts performed by them do not justify or counter anything, what is a wrong is a wrong, it is a quite simple logic, it takes a lot of time to develop something great be it a relation or some achievement but it takes very less time to destroy it, and people never seem to understand that, I wonder why!!!!!!!

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