Life BiRtH N Career

"Mera beta engineer banega" (my son will become engineer), this was the first thing a guy called Farahan had to hear from his father the moment he was born. This reference has been taken from the movie "3idiots"

This was told as a jovial note and people usually and i mean usually try to enjoy the moment there in the cinema hall and enjoy the experience. The issue hear to be looked into is that, the burden of everything, i mean everything which is put upon a child's shoulder the moment he/she enters the world.

Even life partners are sometimes decided at child birth and there are 'n' number of movies in all languages in Indian cinema which portray such scenarios. O.k, the literal translation of dialogue usually used are " look how beautiful my bride is?" or "when i have a daughter i will surely give her hand to him" and so on.

You could justify that all these are just movies and what could these have any possible correlation to things that happen in the real life. But again i would like to reinstate that from where do these people get these ideas, ir is from the real world. I am not going to go deep in to the relationship aspect here, it too vast and complex and sometimes it even gets dirty.

Well, lets start with career shall we, people usually, i mean usually, forget the word usually, they are never bothers about it to to be frank. I again state there are always exceptions.

Well lets start from the beginning shall we, imagine you ask a guy/gal what what you want you want to be in life, and we get to hear stuff like "I want to be a doctor/engineer/lawyer/pilot and so on" the list is never ending, even i fall into one such category, we tend to decide on things quite early in life i am not blaming that and that is not in wrong in totality too, it is just that i think we tend to decide on things even before what they are or what these people actually do in their life.

It is basically the people around you who drive you in those tender years and you tend to get inspired by the things which happen around you or from the things you hear. Our human brain has to be referred in this particular instance of discussion. Our human is a very powerful thing and if trained you can bend even iron rods just using your mind, i may look like exaggerating but it is not so, i believe every person is gifted in his/her own way and they can choose or do anything to which they set their minds to.

It is just about getting to the final destination and every target has hurdles and competition but if you have set your target and you can work towards it every mountain is scalable no matter how big it is.

The usual thing that happens in reality is that, many people love to do something and end up doing something else and it is the way of nature. But, all i would like to say is never give up hope on the thing which you aspire or love to do ever in your life.

You must have heard people say if you love your carrier, you will enjoy it, but not many get o do that so let us change the thing a little bit according to the present trend, if you love to do a thing but instead end up doing something else, complete the thing that you have started and try to work towards your goal later on but never ever give up on that.

The simple concept to be followed on career/life is never to lose focus, it is not a guy who has taste success at the first instance who is regarded as a fighter but a guy after repeated failures goes on to achieve that goal. I am not stating that achieving something in one go is not the right attitude of a fighter or a winner, but sometimes that could play a negative part in your life, a person who knows to get up after a fall in life can only dream of achieving greatness in life. The negative part which i am stating all along is that some people grow so accustomed to their success that one small failure could traumatize them.

Life is one, choose something you want to do, even if you don't get to do that, try to do it at some point of time in your life, but never repent on what you are doing or what you will be doing a few years from now, that could play a very damaging role in your life.

And it is you who is going to shape your life after a certain point of time in you life. It is like this parents and teachers mold the outer portion and then you have some clay in your hand so that you can enhance your personal value in a particular area or field. And finally it is you who has to decide on what you want to do in your life and what you want to make out of it.