Studies NN Friends

Friends are an integral part of our lives and i stand by it. There are some interesting set of people who might have joined you in some walk of life. These set of people would want to befriend you at some point of time for a particular objective or for a personal reason. There are various kinds of people and there are various reasons. One of the most common reasons is studies and this is not something out of the ordinary and there are people like that.

I know this is a fact that many would acknowledge it to be true and the people would sure agree to it. It is a normal attitude or a character of every living being. Let us take an example of a pack of wolves they roam with each other just for security of one another and to hunt it is all a selfish motive and it is how the people are, after all human beings evolved from apes and apes are also animals.

There is a usual attraction towards people who are studious in their life and that is usually determined by the talent that they posses in their life. And people try to befriend these kind of people for the most common of reasons that is for improving their own standards.

Now even in this there are another set of people who try to befriend these people and these people are not weak in studies but they try to befriend them so as to know them from near so that they can beat them easily.

As people say "all is fair in love and war", studies in the current scenario has become war and people who slow down are crushed to such an extent that they are rendered hopeless and are left alone only when others are satisfied that he/she won't have the same fighting spirit again.

Here i would like to bring about the example of a guy nicknamed "silencer" in the movie "3idiots" where the day before his exams he would go about distracting his fellow classmates in order to increase his own chances of securing the top rank. Well the later category of people are somewhat of the same kind.

Here, i am not against any of the two types, here there is a selfish reason with both sets of people and that is not to be blamed in totality, but the former type is better than the later. I am not degrading the later type but mark these words and mark them well, these kinds of people stay with you through out your life, the reason is is not that complicated in both the cases.

Remember, man is driven by necessity when he has everything he doesn't think much about it but when he doesn't have anything he tries to find ways and means to attain the goal.

In the first case, the person becomes indebted and tries to repay the favor and treads the rest of the life with you and helps you in some way or the other. The later is a bit rare but they too exist, it is the competitive attitude that keep this kind of relationship alive and kicking. This kind of attitude and thing can be damaging because the other guy would want to outshine in one aspect or the other and the way to do it easy is to stay with them 24x7 and know what they do in-order to stay ahead of people. This kind of competition could turn out to be a healthy one in due course of time and both of them could benefit from this kind of relationship and maybe and just maybe could turn into a healthy friendship.

Finally, mark my words and mark them well, every rule which i have stated has an exception and there are not strict principles laid down like maths/science, it is life and it has to have its own twists and turns in life